Peter and Wendy

Author: J. M. Barrie

Genre: Children's Fantasy

Age: Upper elementary to middle school.  (Younger children as well if read with an adult.)

Topics for discussion: obedience to parents, growing up, violence, prejudice, selfishness

Summary:  Peter Pan takes the Darling children on an adventure to Neverland, where the boys get to hunt pirates and Indians, and Wendy gets to play mother to all the boys.  When Wendy realizes that they are all starting to forget their real mother and father, she decides to go home, but not before Hook tries one last time to lure Peter to his death.  Of course, Peter rescues her and she chooses to go back home to grow up.

Review:  Like many others, I saw the Disney movie long before I read this book.  When I did read it, I was shocked at Peter's callousness.  He is forgetful to the point of putting Wendy and the boys in danger, he is a perfect little tyrant with his own followers, and he doesn't really care for anyone but himself.  In this light, it is very easy to see that Wendy's decision to go back home is motivated primarily by Peter's failure to really care about her.  For Peter, being father is just a game that will last only as long as it interests him; but Wendy's game is filled with half serious overtones as she prepares for a role she will one day actually fill.  Wendy's choice is the choice to deny herself the boyish adventures and childish pretend that Neverland offers in favor of real love and motherhood.  Peter's sense of loss when she leaves is motivated by his selfishness and only lasts as long as his attention.

Multimedia:  Barrie also wrote several other books dealing with Peter Pan and also wrote the stage play.  The musical is still fairly successful, even though the books have fallen somewhat out of favor (after all, they are definitely not politically correct and do not portray the Peter we have come to know).  However, there is no shortage of adaptations and various editions of the story available.  (Peter and Wendy is the title of the book that most of us are familiar with.  Peter Pan in Kensington Gardens is a kind of prequel to Peter and Wendy that describes how Peter first left his parents.  Most books simply labeled Peter Pan are usually a combination of the two complete novels, are some hybrid of the two, are a version of the stage play, or are an adaptation of Peter and Wendy.)

There are also several film versions of this book or related to the Peter Pan stories.  Disney, of course, is the one most people are familiar with, although the recent film directed by J.P. Hogan has been very successful as well.  The movie Hook takes the story a bit further, suggesting that eventually Peter Pan chose to grow up and have a family of his own.  Finding Neverland, in theaters this fall, tells the story of Barrie's relationship with a family of young, fatherless boys, who served as inspiration for the stories of Peter.  I have not yet seen the film, but expect that many of the more sordid elements of his life will be left out.

Christian Perspective: While the book is considered a classic in children's literature, don't expect any of the characters to set good examples, and much of the children's behavior would be considered unacceptable in any era.  On the other hand, it is quite obviously a fantasy and is all in good fun.  Although young readers will enjoy Peter's adventures, it is unlikely that any reader will mistake them for read.  I also find it unlikely that any reader will, in the end, sympathize with Peter; rather, our sympathies are drawn towards Wendy who makes the choice to go home.

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